Horses are great teachers of listening. They will not be rushed and demand space.
Great coaches, excellent leaders, and special friends are often remembered for their ability to listen in a special way. They “hold space” for us, which can be described as listening with a full, active form of patience and unconditional positive regard. With them we feel validated, heard, and never rushed. The results can be dramatic and lifechanging, as our own insights ideas, and wisdom are given the time and space to finally emerge.
Great listeners “hold space” for us. They always make time to give us their full attention. Conversations and relationships are richer and more effective as a result.
Who do you hold space for, and who holds space for you?
